Do not suspect ISLAM

I’m a Muslim and I wanted to explain the matter from ISLAM point view.
First of all what he did have nothing to do with ISLAM
In ISLAM he have to inform both wives before marriage and get their acceptance (he didn’t inform the first wife)
In ISLAM he have to be fair between both wives even in the smile. (of course he is not fair in flat, car,….)
I agree of course he is using you to get his own pleasure. Somehow you accepted this coz I’m sure u had an idea before marriage about this (You said it you lied in the court). I don’t blame u I’m sure u had enough reasons to marry him.
My advise to you the first thing u should do to get him admit his own son (get official birth certificate) coz this son have all the rights as other sons.
Second you have to go to court to get divorce try to get the help of your embassy in that.
I want to remind you of your rights, ISLAM give you your rights even after divorce. He have to give you place to live + monthly allowance + full fund for his son.
I think you can remain in Kuwait coz you will be a mother of Kuwaiti (your son). I know it will be tough coz he will not give up and he will try to annoy you, but if you left Kuwait you will lose your & your son rights, so be strong and stay.
TAKE CARE he may be will try not admit his son.

Finally ISLAM in no way can accept what he is doing, not all Muslims or Arabs like this man. In all religions / nationalities there is bad people and good people. These kind of people do this even with other Arabs from poor countries like Egypt , Yemen,…They uses the seduction of money to use poor people.

Muslim 16 Jun 2009, 08:34 - Report