Rights of my daugther.....kuwaiti nationality.

Good day.....
Iam filipina i been in kuwait for almost 14 years.I meet this guy it was 1997.He is kuwaiti citizen.then, after he proposed to me infront of his present wife(she got a kuwaiti nationality) to marry me,first i was shocked,speechless.Iam not really if his wifes is surprised too.I dont say anything on that time,till i ask about this matter in my teacher in my islamic school.Till then i realized that could be accepted,frankly iam already inlove that guy for the first time i saw him but he is married so i just keep quite and keep my feelings to him.
And oneday,the present wife came for me and talk to me. what my answer about the proposal;i said,"what!"...are you sure about that and you know what are you talking about! And iam so surprised and wondering to her that u can't see any upset or anger in her face.Well, then till she told me the reason why? And i told to her to give me a sometimes to think so wisely but in my heart telling not to wait to long...coz,i can't denied my true feelings.

The same day i gave my answer we went to the court with his present wife to be one of witness.We didn't finish all the papers works and the same day cos we to go back to the phil embassy...
But the next day we dont come back to the embassy coz he became busy and so far.. the days became years and the same reason; he is always telling me that his present wife asking him always a favor to do...It takes a year to wait but it ok; in the reason why because i love him i always wait and hoping on his promises like he said and swearing to the god(ALLAH) till i decide to go home for vacation and my reason too is i want to know if he really seriuos on me.
I came back 2000 and we still together i moved in his house together with his family,and once again i asked him when he will marry me.when i will be a legal wife.He says;as long as all his family known our relationship specially his wife i dont have to worry.So i believe him and trust him but days goes and his kids growing asking about my real relation with thier father "the words," "he is my husbund too"and "iam his wife" but my consciuos can't stay always like these so i decide to spoke with him and telling that iam going back home never come back he is not agree with that. i know he loved me so much too.So since that days he always convinced me not to go.And i asked to him my rights too,he is always speechless he did'nt say anything about it....so i go on in my decision.
The same year my plan to go home then i found out i was pregnant by two months then i told to him everything even in his present wife...to be sure iam telling the truth they (he and present wife)take me to the lab.After we came back from the doctors we spoke to all his childrens and family that iam pregnat and everybody happy but there is jealousy ofcourse..
Iam in the third month we went to court again for to marry me and the same time our embassy help me to finish my marriage contract but when we came to the court a friend of his wife working in the court advise us not to continue cos my stomach very suspicous infront of the judge and it cos more trouble for me and my baby.So do it her advise and he ask me to go home to delivered my baby.And he promised me again to process soon the paper for we can both back in kuwait.But after a month he changed his planned supposedly to come after me to marry me in phil but he can't go out coz he has block listed in the cumputer in the airport..so again i accepted his reason.I came back by myself without my daugther i leave her she is only one in half month,but i have to leave her eventhough it is hurt and against in my feeling...Cos i was thinking its for her rights.

So i came back in kuwait.
After 7 months we finally got married..
And then we lived our own.Almost everyday i asking him when he will bring our daugther her in kuwait.ALL i always heard is "inshaallah" and i trust that words of course keep waiting. but the these days come for us iam expecting better,peace,nice life but is not. he changed a lot and become worst he started beaten me. Eventhough i forgive him after what he done to me,otherwise;i still tried to be patience i was thought he will not do it again.So i decide to stay.But i was wrong he didn't stop beaten me.I dont go to police to complain about it.I dont want him to be in the jail.Because no matter what he is still the father of my daugther eventhough he did not give his name to her.I dont want ato bring any disgrace in his side.

When i find the right time to speak with him, i ask him to divorced me,i cant stay with him anymore. I thought that better way to do. He accepted my favor coz he knows what he done he is wrong and he is guilty about what he did.
I dont ask anything after from him all i need is my freedom.eventhough it is unfair to the rigths of my daugther.We divorced at nov 27 2007.
And rigth now i married again in a foriegner(us citizen).
I would like to know now if my daughter still have rigths to get the support or nationality from her father.He is kuwaiti.
I dont want she blame me someday i take away the rights and upportuniy from her father.But iam also afraid that her father take her away from me.Only she i have.....I dont expecting anything now in my present husband. Will take the responsible to my daugther although before he marry me i already told to him about my daugther and he accepted and he told me "i will be her father now,and she will be my daugther".
Please i need some more advice and help me how i figure out this matter...thank you very much to the concern of yours....
GOD BLESS YOU ALL.hoping someone willl reply me soon...

JFL PHILS. 05 Jul 2009, 06:18 - Report